Interview with Bill DePerry of Apostle Highlands Golf Course

Local Beaches for Your Elopement or Intimate Wedding

June 15, 2018

The beauty of our area comes from Lake Superior and the land around us. So many couples have their destination wedding here because it’s a beautiful place to get married, they can make a vacation out of the trip with their guests, and because this area may hold a special place in their heart.

If you are not completely familiar with the area you may not be aware of all the places along Lake Superior that you can get married at! We’ve put together a great list of local beaches that are perfect for an elopement or very small ceremony. Enjoy!

Little Sand Bay
Located 15 minutes north of Bayfield in the very northern tip of our county, Little Sand Bay offers a campground, beautiful sand swimming beach, playground area and more. Dune grass lines the beach with plenty of forest nearby.

Big Bay Town Park
Madeline Island has public beaches of its own, Big Bay Town Park being one of the most popular for visitors and weddings. A beautiful wood staircase and bridge bring you to the sandy beach, which also has some pine trees if you’d like to combine beach and trees! Keep in mind this location is not recommended if you have a guest that cannot make it down/up a tall staircase or walk a small distance.


Meyers Beach

Located between Bayfield and Cornucopia, Meyers Beach is part of the Apostle Islands National Lakeshore, managed by the local National Park Service. Meyers Beach, pictured above, offers plenty of sandy beach perfect for an elopement or small ceremony.

Things to keep in mind: There is a $5 parking fee and a staircase to get down to the beach. When you get to the beach head away from the staircase for your ceremony, just in case the kayaking groups arrive during your ceremony and begin bringing down the kayaks and equipment to kayak to the sea caves.

Cornucopia Beach
Located 25 minutes from Bayfield, Cornucopia Beach features 6.3 acres of sandy beach to the west of the marina. Pictured at the very top, this sandy beach offers a very long beach where you can spread out and adventure around the dune grass and water.

Bayview Town Park
Located just south of Bayfield, the beach at Bayview Town Park can be accessed from Bayview Park Road or Friendly Valley Road. With views of Madeline Island, this sandy beach pictured below is perfect for those wanting to stay close to Bayfield but get out on the sand!


A few things to keep in mind when planning a beach ceremony, no matter the size:
1. The water level is different from year to year. We recommend you or someone check the beach before your ceremony to see what the water level is like this time of the year. What may have been a large sandy beach in years past may now only have 5 feet to work with.
2. Keep an eye on the weather, because it can change quickly around Lake Superior.
3. Depending on the time of the week/year, the beach may have a lot of visitors. This is something just to consider and take into account.

We hope this was helpful for you! A great resource is this Bayfield County interactive map– click “play” on the left then “beaches” on the top!

Featured: A Bayfield Destination Wedding

April 2, 2018

Rachael and AJ’s destination wedding took place in Bayfield, Wisconsin on October 14, 2017. Even though they live in the Twin Cities- Bayfield stole their heart years ago and was the place they wanted to get married. Andi Stempniak Photography captured their wedding day just beautifully! We hope you enjoy their wedding as much as we do!

Photo Credit: Andi Stempniak Photography

Tell us a little bit about yourselves and how you met.
When we first connected, it was safe to say neither was sure if we were the ones for each other. But the first date proved otherwise. On a cold winter night, we met for an evening of rock climbing – a sport we have continued throughout our relationship- but it went on to dinner and deep discussion as if we had known each other forever. If it were not for having to go to work the next day, we would have talked all night. It did not take long to realize we should be partners in this adventure together.

What made you choose Bayfield for your wedding?
Rachael’s family has a cabin here and has been boating the Apostle Islands for years. When Rachael introduced A.J. to Bayfield, it was love at first site! We both have traveled the world, but Bayfield still draws us like a magnet. Naturally we wanted to share this place with everyone. It is far enough to be a “destination wedding,” which makes it an extra special for all who attended.

Photo Credit: Andi Stempniak Photography

Tell us about your wedding!
We had a BBQ and bonfire the evening before at our family cabin as people arrived from around the U.S and beyond.  The day of the wedding, we had a picturesque Bayfield October fall day. The men got dressed on the family boat at the city dock just steps away from the ceremony location at the Bayfield Lakeside Pavilion while the ladies got ready at the Old Rittenhouse Inn. We decided not to see each other until Rachael walked down the aisle which made the moment all the more special. We didn’t have an officiant, instead we chose to create a personal ceremony ourselves with our friends and family sharing readings we had selected. A.J’s sisters provided vocal music. We both wrote personal vows, which we kept to ourselves until the ceremony. The love and care we put into the vows and ceremony, coupled with the built up anticipation, made for a truly memorable and heartfelt occasion.

While we had bridal party portraits, guests mingled and had cotton candy (a favorite of Rachael’s) and fresh cheese curds. Hey, we’re in Wisconsin! Including Rachael’s two daughters that were bridesmaids, two flower girls and a ring bearer, we had about 30 children in attendance! It was an absolute joy to have them.  We just made sure to kick off the reception early so everyone, including our friends who happen to be parents, could enjoy. Kid bags with playdoh and toys kept the children happy during dinner and toasts.

As the sun set and the band got underway, the rain and wind blew off of Lake Superior, which the Pavilion is literally built over. We were all cozy and dancing in the candle-lit Pavilion, so the Lake’s storm seemed like the perfect end to a perfect day.

Photo Credit: Andi Stempniak Photography

Are there any recommendations you have for someone looking to get married in the Bayfield area?
Encourage your guests to book accommodations early if they have preferences. There are plenty of options, so availability (even during peak fall colors) was not a problem if you know where to look. The Chamber of Commerce has a great website that shows availability for your dates, it was a great tool.  We emailed our “save the dates” with links to accommodations and information about Bayfield to get the information out early so guests could arrange travel well ahead of time.

One of the best things about planning a wedding in Bayfield is that there are few vendors but they are all terrific. This made decisions much easier, a huge plus when planning a destination wedding, allowing us to concentrate on the personal components. Everyone we worked with was a true professional and easy going! Our second choice was to get married in the Twin Cities where we live. That would have been even more challenging to plan and certainly more expensive while being less gorgeous and intimate.

The main thing is what they all say: keep the details in proper perspective, be a gracious host, and at the end of the day, you’ll be married to your best friend!

Vendors that were involved in your wedding day:
Photographer: Andi Stempniak Photography
Venue: Bayfield Lakeside Pavilion
Catering: Good Thyme Catering
Pies: Gourmet Garage
Hotel: Old Rittenhouse Inn
Ceremony Dress: Rosa Clara Denia
Reception Dress: Dress the Population
Bridesmaids: Calvin Klein
Hair and makeup: Mollie Kae Hair & Makeup
Tux: The Black Tux
Band: Blue Drifters
Flowers + Decor: DIY by bride and friends

Bachelor + Bachelorette Parties: Bayfield Style

March 11, 2018

Wedding planning is underway- that is great! Now you’re discussing what to do for your bachelor and bachelorette parties.

If you’re looking for unique ideas, outdoor adventures or just a really fun weekend look no further! We have put together a great list of ways to celebrate with your closest friends, Bayfield style.

Water Adventures

  • Kayak: Spend the day or weekend kayaking the sea caves. Local outfitters offer day and overnight trips, perfect for groups looking to get outdoors.
  • Cruise, Sail + Charter: Get out on the water and relax. Feel the breeze, tour the Apostle Islands and lighthouses, pack a picnic and spend the day soaking up the sun.
  • Fish: Bring your own gear or charter, either way get out on Lake Superior with your friends and have fun!
  • Paddle Board + Swim: Our bay offers a number of sandy beaches, perfect for laying out, swimming, paddle boarding, stone collecting and general sunny-day fun.

Land Adventures

  • Orchard, Winery + Berry Picking: Did you know that Bayfield is the berry capital of Wisconsin? We have so many beautiful orchard and fruit farms, where you can spend your morning or afternoon picking fruit and relaxing under the trees or near the gardens. Add in the local wineries, pack a picnic and you have a fun, relaxing and delicious day!
  • Biking, Camping + Hiking: With over 10 different hiking trails in the area, waterfalls, campgrounds and national forests, this area is really an outdoor-lovers paradise.
  • Golfing: Not just your average golf courses, ours have views of the Apostle Islands and Lake Superior making it a beautiful and really fun course.
  • Winter: Dog sledding, snowmobiling, winter hiking/biking, skiing, ice fishing and more! Keep in mind- many of the other great activities listed here are available all year long!

In-Town Adventures

  • Shopping: With a number of gift stores and boutiques, you’ll be able to spend the afternoon shopping and browsing in town right by Lake Superior.
  • Artist Galleries + Museums: Visit the galleries and museums for tours, demonstrations, classes and gift shops!
  • Local Cuisine: No matter if you are looking for fine dining, local fish fry or breakfast, one thing is for sure: it will be a fantastic meal!
  • Shows + Concerts: We have free concerts every Tuesday, in the summer, in Memorial Park down by the water. Our area also offers the opportunity to attend a play or concert together!
  • Massage + Spa: Have a group spa day, right in town- spend the day relaxed and pampered!

Make sure to explore our website, where you can find much more information along with fantastic businesses to help make your trip so special! Feel free to contact us at (715) 779-3335 to request a visitor guide.

We also have a really great vendor and venue resource if you are planning your wedding here as well!

 

Featured: A Bayfield Intimate Wedding

December 15, 2017

Most of the couples that get married in Bayfield fully embrace everything we have to offer! One way of doing this is by making a whole weekend out of your wedding, instead of just one quick day. With many guests coming here for the first time, show them around and recommend your favorite things to do! This is exactly what David and Efrie did for their wedding!

With just 24 guests, David and Efrie had an incredibly memorable wedding weekend spending time with family, taking in the Apostle Islands and even giving beautiful local gifts in gift bags to each guest. Read all about their wedding and how it came together so beautifully!

Photographer: Ps 139 Photography

Tell us a little bit about yourselves and how you met.
David is a computer programmer, originally from North Carolina, and Elizabeth (nickname: Efrie) is an architect, originally from Milwaukee. We met almost 10 years ago through Match.com while living in New York. Since then, we’ve lived in Connecticut, Michigan, and Philadelphia (where we live now).

Our first date was a concert in New York, but the most memorable part was playing several very competitive rounds of Connect 4 at a dive bar, where we went for drinks before the concert.

What made you choose Bayfield for your wedding?
David grew up spending his summers at his grandfather’s lake house in the Poconos, which is a place that is very special and important to his family. He proposed while we were hiking around the lake.

Efrie’s family has a similarly special place: her grandmother’s cabin on the Brule River. It made sense to us that in officially merging our families, each of these very special places would be a part of the festivities. One of the highlights of trips to Brule for the last 16 years has been a night in Bayfield for dinner at Wild Rice Restaurant (we missed their first year they were open), and Efrie and her mom started talking about how beautiful the location would be for a wedding from the very first time they saw the restaurant, so it sprang to mind immediately when we were brainstorming possible wedding locations.

Photographer: Ps 139 Photography

Tell us about your your wedding!
Our weather was fairy-tale perfect, and we were so excited to be able to share our wedding with our very small party of 24 guests, for most of whom it was their first time to Bayfield. They all left stunned at how beautiful the area is (which is why we picked Bayfield for our location!) We kicked off the weekend with a champagne cruise around the Apostle Islands, giving all our guests an intro to the local history, with delicious appetizers from Ashland Baking Co. We followed the cruise with a dinner at Ethel’s, teaching everyone about the very important food group of cheese curds.

The day of our wedding, we spent the morning eating a luxurious breakfast from Pinehurst Inn, and then Efrie was whisked away to get ready. Our guests spent the morning and afternoon enjoying all that Bayfield has to offer – some went sailing, others went hiking, and some just strolled around town browsing the shops. Our wedding ceremony took place in the evening on the back deck of Wild Rice, and we were thrilled to find out that Mary Rice was actually having dinner at the restaurant that night!

Efrie’s brother Dave and his wife Megan conducted our ceremony. One of the most touching parts was a piece we adopted from the Quaker tradition (which has a very important place in the history of our current home state, Pennsylvania), where everyone attending is given the opportunity to impart blessings and words of wisdom to the couple. Hearing the best wishes and love from everyone was definitely a highlight of the night!

After we were introduced for the first time as Mr. and Mrs. Escott, we celebrated with a delicious meal at Wild Rice. We also had each of our guests write us notes to put into boxes with bottles of wine that we will open and drink at each of our milestone anniversaries, so that we can experience their words of wisdom and blessings at our first year, fifth year, tenth year, and twenty-fifth year of marriage.

Photographer: Ps 139 Photography

Are there any recommendations you have for someone looking to get married in the Bayfield area?
Start your planning early! Everyone is incredibly helpful and excited about making all your dreams for your big day come true, but it’s important to have enough time for all the plans to come to fruition (and to have the time to work in all the extra ideas once they start popping up). Also, it’s a really good idea to talk to people at all the restaurants and B&Bs for recommendations on who to use for what — we never would have found our amazing florist (Kelly) if we had only looked at business listings.

Vendors
Photographer: Ps 139 Photography
Flowers: Kelly & Crew Designs
Groom’s party lodging: Rittenhouse Inn
Bride’s party lodging: Pinehurst Inn
Dinner and ceremony: Wild Rice Restaurant (Closed)
Rehearsal dinner: Ethel’s Restaurant
Rehearsal cruise: Apostle Island Cruises
Catering for cruise: Ashland Baking Company
Goodies in guest gift bags: Erickson Orchards and Country Store (bottle of cider), The Fat Radish (voucher for a cup of coffee), The Candy Shoppe (voucher for an ice cream cone), Apostle Islands Booksellers (souvenir photo books)

 

Proposing in the Winter: Bayfield Style

November 17, 2017

So, you are looking to propose… congratulations! Bayfield, Wisconsin is the perfect place to get away and have a romantic weekend. Many couples choose Bayfield to be their destination for their wedding, elopement, honeymoon or proposal!

We have put together a really great list of ways to make your Bayfield winter proposal extra special! We hope you enjoy!

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Overnight Accommodations
You’ve decided the “when” now you need to think of the “how”! First off, we recommend booking your overnight accommodations. Bayfield has a beautiful array of hotels, bed and breakfasts, condos and cabins to choose from! Old Rittenhouse Inn is known for their romance, and they even have a special proposal package for you! Centrally located right in town, you’ll be able to walk to the restaurants and shops.

If you’re looking for more seclusion we recommend renting a cabin in the woods. Hauser’s Bayfield CabinBrickyard Cottage 41 and Whispering Pines on Lake Superior are just a couple of options for your woodland getaway. Curl up next to a cozy fire, spend time hiking outside the snowy woods and don’t forget to pick up wine from Bayfield Wine and Spirits!

See all the lodging Bayfield has to offer and the availability by clicking here.

What to Do During Your Stay
Whether you’re looking for a relaxing trip spent curled up by the fire or for a weekend adventuring the outdoors, Bayfield has all of this and then some. Spend some time at Seven Ponds Winery, which also features select wine from Bayfield WinerySuperior Body Massage and Spa is located right in town, and they even have couples packages. Bayfield offers outdoor activities like skiing, hiking, snowshoeing and dog sledding. See our Get Active this Winter post for more ideas. If the ice caves are open, those are a must-see as well!

Peruse shops and galleries downtown like Eckels Pottery and Fine Craft GalleryHowl Clothing & AdventureSilverwaves Jewelry, Sweet Sailing and Bates Art Gallery. Make sure to get something special to take home!

Depending on the time of the year and ice conditions, you can take the Madeline Island Ferry Line or drive on the ice road over to Madeline Island. Make sure to stop over at Madeline Island Candles and Woods Hall Gallery and Studios.

Lakeside Dining Room at The Bayfield Inn

Where to Dine
From fine dining to pubs, Bayfield has many dining options that will surely delight you. We recommend Old Rittenhouse Inn’s Landmark Restaurant and Lakeside Dining Room at The Bayfield Inn if you are looking for a delicious and romantic dinner. The Fat Radish is a must-stop if you are looking for cuisine made with local ingredients and many vegan + gluten-free options.

If you aren’t staying somewhere that provides breakfast then we highly recommend you visit Manypenny Bistro, Cafe Coco, and Old Rittenhouse Inn’s Landmark Restaurant!

Making your Proposal Special
We can’t tell you exactly how to propose, because that comes from you! We recommend reflecting back on your relationship and thinking about the special moments that come to mind. Do something meaningful and memorable! Whether you propose over dinner, in the snowy woods or out in the ice caves- make it unique and special for both of you.

If you are looking to hire a photographer we recommend Bemused Photography, Bottle Rocket Photography, Leafblad Photography and Ps 139 Photography!


Photo Credit: Ps 139 Photography

Take a look at our resources and inspiration page to help plan your Bayfield proposal!

Interview with Becky Haller of Pinehurst Inn

August 2, 2017

A relaxing, romantic and adventurous honeymoon is exactly what Bayfield can offer newlyweds looking to get away! Pinehurst Inn is one of many beautiful Inns here in the Bayfield area- a perfect place to honeymoon! We interviewed with Becky Haller to hear all about their honeymooners and what Pinehurst Inn has to offer. Enjoy!

Tell us a little bit about yourself and Pinehurst Inn.
Mike and I purchased Pinehurst Inn in March of 2016. We made the move from Chicago to Bayfield to enjoy a slower paced life and the beauty of Lake Superior and the Bayfield area. Owning an inn allows me to cook and bake for guests, which I love to do.  The Inn is comprised of 2 buildings—the original home built in the late 1800s, which includes 5 guest rooms, and the garden house built in 2003, which includes 3 guest rooms. A 3 course breakfast and an afternoon snack is provided each day.

What makes Pinehurst Inn special for honeymooners? 
The Pinehurst Inn is located 3 miles south of downtown Bayfield on 3 ½ acres, surrounded by soaring pines and adjacent to Pike’s Creek. Couples can enjoy the peace, beauty and tranquility that the property offers, yet be just minutes away from Lake Superior and the many activities the Bayfield area has to offer.  Many of our rooms have large jetted tubs and fireplaces, and some have private decks—some of the favorite amenities of our honeymooners. We have a number of porches, a patio, and other sitting areas on the property allowing couples to find their own special spot.

What time of the year is busiest for honeymooners?
The summer is the busiest for honeymooners, which is a great time of the year for enjoying Lake Superior, Madeline Island, and all the many hiking and biking trails in the area.

What activities do you typically recommend to honeymooners who stay with you?
It all depends on the couple’s interest.  Many of our honeymooners have enjoyed kayaking to the sea caves, exploring Madeline Island, taking a private boat tour to some of the Apostle Islands, hiking the nearby trails, and visiting the local wineries, orchards and farms.

What recommendations do you have for couples looking to honeymoon in Bayfield?
Make sure they schedule any kayaking or small boat tours ahead of time so they are not disappointed if they cannot take the tour they want, but don’t over schedule your trip. Most couples enjoy some down time and the Pinehurst Inn is ideal for rest, relaxation and connecting with one another.

To learn more about Pinehurst Inn visit their website and Facebook page.

Bayfield Caterers and Their Favorite Dishes

March 20, 2017

One of the biggest components of your wedding reception is the food! The caterer and menu you choose should reflect both your style and palate. Bayfield, Wisconsin and the surrounding Chequamegon region is home to a vibrant community of local farmers and producers, offering a variety of fresh fish, fruits and vegetables. This allows local caterers to provide you the best of the best!

We asked three local caterers to describe a favorite appetizer, entree or dessert that they commonly provide for weddings. Along with their favorite dish, they each offered up a catering recommendation for couples planning a Bayfield Wedding! Get ready for your mouth to water. Enjoy!

Cafe Coco- Artisan Bakery and Good Eats
Located in the neighboring town of Washburn, Cafe Coco serves breakfast and lunch along with a delicious deli and bakery. They pride themselves on using local ingredients and offering a variety of gluten-free, vegan and vegetarian options. In addition to offering catering services, they can also make your wedding cake!

We spoke with Noreen, the owner of Cafe Coco, about her favorite dishes to cater. A favorite appetizer is Veggies and Dip, local vegetables with a basil and pesto cream. A favorite dessert is a pastry assortment, cheesecake danish, chocolate focaccia, raspberry kolache, baklava, hazelnut cream tarts and local blueberry bobka.

Noreen’s catering recommendation? Book your caterer early and discuss all details and charges with them.

Cafe Coco: Pastry Assortment + Veggies and Dip

Good Thyme Catering, Events and Lodging
Good Thyme is a well-established catering company that provides artisan, house-made cuisine for weddings and events in the Chequamegon Bay area. They have a fully licensed mobile kitchen, which enables them to prepare your food on site.

One of Good Thyme’s favorite dishes to cater is Wisconsin Cheese Curds with Dipping Sauce. A local favorite- no matter where you’re from! They dip fresh Wisconsin cheese curds in a signature batter and fry them until they’re golden brown with just a hint of crisp on the outside, with all the melty, cheesy goodness you could hope for on the inside. The cheese curds are excellent on their own, but they are happy to help you choose one or two of their scratch-made dipping sauces to serve them with.

Good Thyme: Wisconsin Cheese Curds with Dipping Sauce

Good Thyme’s favorite entree is Lake Superior Whitefish Provencal. Unbeatably fresh, local whitefish is poached in white wine, shallots and butter, then plated with Israeli couscous and topped with a colorful ensemble of cherry tomatoes, Kalamata olives, capers and herbs. It’s wonderfully elegant without being fussy, and it’s absolutely delicious. This dish also works wonderfully with tender chicken breasts, and makes a lovely family-style presentation as well!

One of Good Thyme’s top catering recommendations is to let the seasons help you choose your menu! It’s always best to start with what’s in season. Bayfield’s local fruits and vegetables are fresher and more flavorful than the store bought varieties, so they suggest including them whenever possible. From there, start thinking about your favorite dishes and determine a theme for your menu. One small little detail- like a specific herb, or a dish enjoyed while traveling- can provide inspiration for everything from starters to desserts.

Good Thyme: Lake Superior Whitefish Provencal

Landmark Restaurant at Old Rittenhouse Inn 
Located inside the Old Rittenhouse Inn, Landmark Restaurant offers upscale American and French cuisine all year long in Bayfield, Wisconsin. Open for breakfast, lunch (by appointment) and dinner, Landmark Restaurant offers elegant ambiance with a casual feel. Landmark Restaurant offers many dining options for small weddings and intimate celebrations.

We spoke with the owners of Old Rittenhouse Inn about their favorite dish to cater, and their answer? Champagne Chicken. Their champagne chicken dish is marinated chicken breast char grilled and served with roasted mushrooms, a champagne-Gran Marinier cream sauce and julienne sliced fried prosciutto. Yum!

Landmark Restaurant’s catering recommendation is: Don’t try to please everyone! Go with what you like best, or go with locally sourced fare for the best, freshest experience.

Old Rittenhouse Inn’s Landmark Restaurant: Champagne Chicken

Take a look at our resources and inspiration page to help plan your Bayfield Wedding!

Inspiration for your Winter Wedding

November 30, 2016

Nothing is as beautiful as the never ending white snow and pine trees here in Bayfield during the winter. You can incorporate both pine trees and branches throughout your entire wedding, really embracing the winter forest theme. We have gathered some of our favorite ideas to help inspire your winter wedding!

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Ceremony
Bring the outdoors in for your ceremony; pine trees and branches make a beautiful addition to your space! Feeling adventurous? Bundle up in a fur shawl and have your ceremony outdoors in the snow!

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Faux Bridal Wrap

Stationery
Set the mood for your winter wedding by sending stationery that reflects your theme!

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Danyelle Woods Designs

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Oh Lilly Designs

Decorations
Keep the forest theme strong by incorporating the outdoors into your centerpieces! Pine branches, tree slices, and birch bark are just a few ideas to go along with a winter forest wedding. Add candles or fairy lights to make the mood very warm and cozy!

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Photo Credit: JoPhoto

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Photo Credit: Erin Kate Photo

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Favors
Although favors are becoming optional these days, if you do decide to give your guests a favor choose an eco-friendly gift like pine tree plants!

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Eastern Leaf

 See our inspiration page and resources page to help plan your Bayfield wedding!

Groom’s Dinner, Bayfield Style

November 3, 2016

Also known as a rehearsal dinner, a groom’s dinner is a smaller, more intimate event typically held the night before the bride and groom’s wedding. Here in the Bayfield area, many couples get pretty creative with their groom’s dinners!

Read ahead to learn how to plan your groom’s dinner, especially if you’d like it to be done Bayfield style!

11708061_10153159923054205_2473072701837666694_oGroom’s Dinner at Good Thyme Restaurant

The Who
Typically a groom’s dinner’s attendees are the bride and groom’s immediate families along with their wedding party. Spouses/dates of any immediate family and wedding party members should be invited, along with your officiant and their spouse. Of course, the guest list can fluctuate to include any out of town guests, family members or anybody else for that matter!

The Why
Groom’s dinners are intended to be a celebratory night where the families and wedding party can spend more intimate time together. A relaxed setting with your closest family and friends allows your wedding weekend to kick off to a really great start. You will be able to loosen up some of the anticipation you have been building up for your wedding weekend!

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Cheese Curds Catered by Good Thyme Catering

The What
What is the difference between a groom’s dinner and rehearsal dinner? Traditionally this event is hosted by the groom’s family, in this case it would be referred to as the groom’s dinner. If the couple, bride’s parents or mix of all three are hosting the event then it would be referred to as the rehearsal dinner. Groom’s dinners can be anything from a backyard BBQ to a formal banquet dinner.

The Bayfield Style
Here in Bayfield we see a wide array of groom’s dinners. Good Thyme Restaurant had a groom’s dinner under a tent on the restaurant’s property where they served a fresh crab boil! The tables were covered with kraft paper, boots filled with succulents and wood crab mallets!

Lace & Brass Events had clients looking for a fun and relaxed meal for their rehearsal dinner. They recommended fish fry and beer! Having Lake Superior at our doorstep allows many local restaurants and caterers to serve fresh fish caught that morning.

Whether you are going to a restaurant for your groom’s dinner, hiring a caterer or doing the DIY approach the biggest tip we have is to relax and enjoy this intimate time with your closest family and friends!

Take a look at our resources and inspiration page to help plan your groom’s dinner or wedding!